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When
an old man died in the geriatric ward of a nursing home in an
Australian country town, it was believed that he had nothing left of any
value.
Later, when the nurses were going through his meager possessions, they
found this poem. Its quality and content so impressed the staff that
copies were made and distributed to every nurse in the hospital.
One nurse took her copy to Melbourne. The old man’s sole bequest to posterity has since appeared in the Christmas editions of magazines around the country and appearing in mags for Mental Health. A slide presentation has also been made based on his simple, but eloquent, poem.
And this old man, with nothing left to give to the world, is now the author of this ‘anonymous’ poem winging across the Internet.
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CRANKY OLD MAN
What do you see nurses…What do you see?
What are you thinking…when you’re looking at me?
A cranky old man…not very wise,
Uncertain of habit…with faraway eyes?
Uncertain of habit…with faraway eyes?
Who dribbles his food and makes no reply,
When you say in a loud voice…’I do wish you’d try!’
When you say in a loud voice…’I do wish you’d try!’
Who seems not to notice…the things that you do.
And forever is losing…A sock or shoe?
And forever is losing…A sock or shoe?
Who, resisting or not…lets you do as you will,
With bathing and feeding…The long day to fill?
With bathing and feeding…The long day to fill?
Is that what you’re thinking? Is that what you see?
Then open your eyes, nurse…you’re not looking at me.
Then open your eyes, nurse…you’re not looking at me.
I’ll tell you who I am…As I sit here so still,
As I do at your bidding…as I eat at your will.
As I do at your bidding…as I eat at your will.
I’m a small child of Ten…with a father and mother,
Brothers and sisters…who love one another
Brothers and sisters…who love one another
A young boy of Sixteen…with wings on his feet,
Dreaming that soon now…a lover he’ll meet.
Dreaming that soon now…a lover he’ll meet.
A groom soon at Twenty…my heart gives a leap.
Remembering, the vows…that I promised to keep.
Remembering, the vows…that I promised to keep.
At Twenty-Five, now…I have young of my own.
Who need me to guide…And a secure happy home.
Who need me to guide…And a secure happy home.
A man of Thirty…My young now grown fast,
Bound to each other…With ties that should last.
Bound to each other…With ties that should last.
At Forty, my young sons…have grown and are gone,
But my woman is beside me…to see I don’t mourn.
But my woman is beside me…to see I don’t mourn.
At Fifty, once more…Babies play ’round my knee,
Again, we know children…My loved one and me.
Again, we know children…My loved one and me.
Dark days are upon me…My wife is now dead.
I look at the future…I shudder with dread.
I look at the future…I shudder with dread.
For my young are all rearing…young of their own.
And I think of the years…And the love that I’ve known.
And I think of the years…And the love that I’ve known.
I’m now an old man…and nature is cruel.
It’s jest to make old age…look like a fool.
It’s jest to make old age…look like a fool.
The body, it crumbles…grace and vigor, depart.
There is now a stone…where I once had a heart.
There is now a stone…where I once had a heart.
But inside this old carcass…A young man still dwells,
And now and again…my battered heart swells
And now and again…my battered heart swells
I remember the joys…I remember the pain.
And I’m loving and living…life over again.
And I’m loving and living…life over again.
I think of the years, all too few…gone too fast.
And accept the stark fact…that nothing can last.
And accept the stark fact…that nothing can last.
So open your eyes, people…open and see.
Not a cranky old man .
Look closer…see…ME!!
Not a cranky old man .
Look closer…see…ME!!
Very touching poem ,just a shame it didn't come to light before the old gentleman passed away.
ReplyDeleteLike to think that people are reading it and taking note . Too many old folks are ignored nowadays .
Thanks for sharing .