Twenty Things a Mother Should Tell Her Son

Twenty Things a Mother Should Tell Her Son

~ Author Unknown ~
1. Play a sport. It will teach you how to win honorably, lose gracefully, respect authority, work with others, manage your time and stay out of trouble…and maybe even throw or catch.

2. You will set the tone for the sexual relationship, so don't take something away from her that you can't give back.

3. Use careful aim when you pee. Somebody's got to clean that up, you know.

4. Save money when you're young because you're going to need it someday.

5. Allow me to introduce you to the dishwasher, oven, washing machine, iron, vacuum, mop and broom. Now please go use them.

6. Pray and be a spiritual leader.

7. Don't ever be a bully and don't ever start a fight, but if some idiot clocks you, please defend yourself.

8. Your knowledge and education is something that nobody can take away from you.

9. Treat women kindly. Forever is a long time to live alone and it's even longer to live with somebody who hates your guts.

10. Take pride in your appearance.

11. Be strong and tender at the same time.

12. A woman can do everything that you can do. This includes her having a successful career and you changing diapers at 3 A.M. Mutual respect is the key to a good relationship.

13. "Yes ma'am" and "yes sir" still go a long way.

14. The reason that they're called "private parts" is because they're "private". Please do not scratch them in public.

15. Peer pressure is a scary thing. Be a good leader and others will follow.

16. Bringing her flowers for no reason is always a good idea.

17. It is better to be kind than to be right.

18. Keep a good sense of humor. A sense of humor goes a long way in the healing process.

19. Please choose your spouse wisely. My daughter-in-law will be the gatekeeper for me spending time with you and my grandchildren.

20. Remember to call your mother because I might be missing you.

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Author: Unknown

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Several Lessons That Life Will Teach Us

Several Lessons That Life Will Teach Us

First Most Important Lesson - Always remember that everyone is important to God.

During my second month of nursing school, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions, until I read the last one: "What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?"

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name? I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank.

Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

"Absolutely," said the professor. "In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say 'hello'."

"I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.

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Second Important Lesson - Always stop and help others in need.

One night, at 11:30 PM, an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rain storm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride. Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car.

A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 1960s. The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxi cab. She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him.

Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home.

A special note was attached. It read: "Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along. Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away. God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.
Sincerely,
Mrs. Nat King Cole".

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Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve you.

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10 year old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him. "How much is an ice cream sundae?" he asked. "Fifty cents," replied the waitress.

The little boy pulled his hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it." Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?" he inquired. By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient."Thirty-five cents," she brusquely replied." The little boy again counted his coins. "I'll have the plain ice cream," he said.

The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away. The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left.

When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table. There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five cents - You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.

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Fourth Important Lesson - Always remember that every obstacle can be an opportunity.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock.

Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the king for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then, a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded.

After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.

The peasant learned what many of us never understand. Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.

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Fifth Important Lesson - Always remember to love others no matter what the cost.

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare and seriousdisease. Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness.

The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister. I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, "Yes, I'll do it if it will save her..." As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheeks. Then, his face grew pale and his smile faded. He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, "Will I start to die right away?"

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her.

You see, understanding and attitude, after all, is everything. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

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Author: Unknown

Photo Credit: daniwao.wordpress.com

Source: gatewaytojesus.com

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Simple Rules For A HappyLife

The other day I was looking for some good stories on the internet and found this little article. I thought that it was good because not only were the rules simple but they are also true. I decided to post them because not only do I actually do a lot of these every day, they can also be an encouragement to other people. I hope that these “rules” can help you have a very, happy life.

Simple Rules For a Happy Life

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Keep a Journal - There a great outlet for your feelings.  Plus there really fun to buy, the selection is half the process and one day looking back through you’ll be able to grown and learn from what you done in the past.  I have 4 full journals.

Dress Up - This is you for you too boys.  Sometimes it’s just fun to look nice, take at least one day a week to put yourself together. Dressing good makes you feel good. It’s fun to feel like you’re in style or to just try on all the clothes in your closet.  May sound like you’re a fourth grade sleepover to you, but give it a chance.

Eat Healthy, but also allow yourself a Cupcake Here and There

Dance and Sing as Often as Possible- It is okay to just let loose.  Whether your good at it or not you’d be surprise how good you’ll feel after a good jam session. Whether it’s in the shower or around your room, there no shame in cutting loose and having some fun.

Dive into EVERYTHING Head First - Most people would say this is a fault but I tend to disagree.  You only live once and if you’re not going to do something full out and full hearted then what’s the point of doing it.  Yes it increases your chances of getting hurt, but it also increases your chances of finding something great.  Whether it’s in love, with friends, your job everything deserves your full attention. You get one ride make it worth it.  

Be Silly and Learn to Laugh at Yourself - It’s okay to be absolutely ridiculous at times. Laugh at what’s funny and take pleasure in it.  If you learn to laugh at yourself it changes your whole view on life.  When we can laugh at ourselves people start laughing with us instead of at us.
 

Learn That There Are No Mistakes in Life - Nothing is a mistake, but everything is a lesson.

Speak your Mind - Don’t ever let something go unsaid, your words have a right to be heard. Bitchy or kind you need to tell it straight or you’ll go through life regretting what you left unsaid.

Kiss Often, Hug More- Everyone not just your significant, other friends and family too. A hug can change someone’s day. 

Love Yourself - If you can’t love yourself, then you’re not ready to let anyone else too either.

So, there you are…..being Happy is Simple as that! :)
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Smile, Laugh and Enjoy Your Day!!

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